Ina Köller, Principal – Technolgy, Valcon Nordics
What does Pride mean to you?
Pride is about celebrating everyone for who we are and embracing diversity. At the same time, it’s being out, proud and visible to ensure it stays that way. This can be done through political protests and raising awareness.
Pride is a place to be and be seen publicly – it’s a visual representation and a demonstration of acceptance for a new generation of queers, including those who may not yet realise they are part of the LGBTQ+ community. It’s fun and, at the same time, politically important.
How do you think the world has changed in terms of LGBTQ+ acceptance since Pride Month was officially established in the US in 1999?
In general, I think LGBTQ+ acceptance has increased, and rights have become more equal. But it’s sad to see that rights are being rolled back in some places, so it’s important to keep fighting for equal rights everywhere and to celebrate recent victories in equality. For example, same-sex marriages are now legal in Thailand.
Have you suffered any LGBTQ+ prejudice in your career, and how did you deal with it?
Luckily, I can say that no, I have not experienced a lot of LGBTQ+ prejudice at work. However, the default assumption is often that couples are straight, which means that I regularly find myself coming out to colleagues who make the wrong assumption about my partner. But, I see this as an opportunity to educate people.
Do you feel you can be your authentic self at Valcon?
Yes, I feel fortunate enough to be able to show up as myself at work.
What is your favourite way to celebrate Pride, and will you go to Copenhagen Pride this year?
In previous years, I’ve attended events and walked the whole Pride parade with my partner – after painting glitter rainbows and flags on everyone who wanted face paint! This year, we have a little baby, so our participation will look a little different. We’ll probably meet up with other LGBTQ+ families somewhere near the parade to catch the vibe and watch some of it, while having enough space for the little ones to roam around. 😊
What would you say to the 18-year-old self, on the cusp of leaving home and embarking on your career?
It’s okay not to know who you are yet. Act like the person you want to become, and you will become her. Be yourself, be authentic and you will find yourself surrounded by good people.
